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Needing to Be Needy

Needing to Be Needy

Needing to Be Needy

by Madison Janke on May 22, 2020

I've never been really good at asking for help. I'm independent and don't really like relying on others. I never want to feel like a burden or come off as needy.

I have carried this habit into my relationship with my Heavenly Father. I know I should feel comfortable just asking for things, but I'm not. I think I see God as someone who's so good and so loving, yet I can't seem to wrap my head around the fact that he wants to give me the things I want. I've always carried around the idea that if I have my quiet time, go to church, and actively live a life that pleases Christ, then he'll just bless me with the desires of my heart.

"May he grant you your heart's desire and fulfill all of your plans!" Psalm 20:4

This verse has come up in a lot of my conversations with friends and family. What I've learned is that doing the "Christian" things doesn't guarantee that I'll get what I want. I believe that this verse tells Christians that when we align ourselves with God and his word, he will take his desires for our lives and make them our own.

I never really felt the need to tell God what I want and ask for it because I know that He already knows my heart. What's the point of telling someone something they already know? Telling God my desires and needs humbles myself and shows me that I still need to seek him and tell him whats going on in my life.

I used to always pray "But Lord, only if it's your will." This isn't a bad thing at all, but I realized that I just needed to be bold in asking God for some things. Of course, I want to live out his will for my life, but praying and asking for the impossible is a big leap of faith. Ask expecting Him to show up in a mighty way!

Originally posted to MyMadsLife on March 18, 2020.

Tags: prayer, faith, god